Stop looking for huge wins, it is a true rarity. Simple is always better, little pieces of happiness in the vast world we live in. You will not win every fight, and nothing in life is tidy. Life is messy, always! You can keep the bar high, but that can be overwhelming, lower it a little now and then. Don’t forget it is adjustable.
Maybe it isn’t your day, month, or sadly it may not be your year. There will be other days, months, years. Plenty of them in fact. A loss doesn’t have to be a total loss, adjust the bar and carry on. You can only do, what you can do. That is what you need to be comfortable with.
There will still be rainbows after storms. Sometimes you wait a little longer. The powers that be could give you a resounding no, just try again another time. Becoming fixated on it, will not change it. In the meantime, find something else. Walk away for awhile, whatever the matter is, it will wait.
I am horrible at completing things in one sitting. I like to putter around with something, a small bite, then go to something else and rotate through several tasks. They all get done and it it spreads out the reward. I helps me avoid feeling overwhelmed. It may seem unproductive, but it works for me.
Look around, find your peace and solace. Give the negative emotions away. Push them from your mind. You can’t run from problems, but you can put them on the back burner for a bit, on low. Change your mind and enjoy the day.
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