Love is not something you turn off. It is emotional, constant, it is a driving force. Connection between people and things they love is not measurable. It is, it just is. It can push you and pull you. It divides people and it brings you together. Real love allows you to be your authentic self, tolerant, patient. It is very reactionary, whether it be because of worry, regret, fear or insecurity. Does not mean that it is right, but love is not perfect.
Over the years I have friends that have gotten to the bare bones of their relationships. Lots of things get in the way. Changes over your life span can sneak up and if you have trouble dealing with them, a relationship can suffer. It’s the built in commitment or loyalty that keeps people together. Some people are worth quitting on, some do not desire the work it takes to maintain connections. It can even be the constant rejection of getting someone to be more pliable. It’s hard to weather storms when others like lightening.
Love is almost like a hobby, you do it enough, it becomes a habit. Often, people have a hard time deciding if what is happening is love. Hurt people.. hurt people. They may not of been shown love, love doesn’t stay so they can’t commit. Maybe they have predetermined love isn’t worth the effort. I love easily, I see two sides to everything. Middle ground, grey areas, are common. Get off the fence, pick a side, always love.
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