You Are Worthy

Listen to yourself and when you don’t just start over as many times as needed. It is okay to choose silence and be alone if you are safe there. It is important to have a relationship with yourself. Can’t love others if you don’t love yourself, bring your barriers down. If you are insecure in your life, you will constantly seek approval for your actions and decisions. I find the hardest thing to deal with is uncertainty. I always say it is change, but I feel it is more about not knowing, feeling unprepared, I suppose they go hand and hand.

I won a four wheeler once, we got helmets and added seats, and set out to explore. Now this city girl, knows nothing about all terrain vehicles. Mud puddles were fun, but what was under the water? Was it an actual hole or wash out? These things can roll right? Why? What actions make that happen? We headed down a steep hill once and as we proceeded I prepared to climb off and jump. Now my dad had an automatic and when I got to run that machine on my own, I was elated. My rules, my path, happy girl.

Unfortunately life is not predictable and we don’t have control. Uncertainties are the name of the game. It is better to learn how to deal with them in a positive manner.You are responsible for your reactions and more often than not they can be irrational. It takes you a long time to learn or rather unlearn these life long coping techniques that don’t suit the betterment of life. In every life situation, the most unbearable you will overcome. You will, it never seems like it, but you do. Even when time passes and you look back, your life has all the pitfalls and every time you are still here. Celebrate your ability to do that. Is your stuff worse than others? Don’t do that, you deal with you, your emotions are valuable, no two paths are the same. Worse, better is of no importance it is yours to navigate.