You

Sometimes you just need a fresh set of eyes. You are in it, whatever it is… you may not even see the big picture. Dance it out, walk it off, talk it to death, then step back and try again. Nothing can be perfect and that is okay. Every trial you ever go through always looks awful in the moment. Give it time, look back, you are still here and celebrate that.

We should always picture the best, so many steps are never taken because of the what ifs. Age can put blinders on us, give us reservations and caution. Kids aren’t like that, wild abandon, perseverance, they just go for it. They problem solve to get what they want, life hasn’t taught them yet that failure stings. They don’t know about danger, they don’t have the voice in their head that tells them they are being ridiculous or won’t succeed. Those things are learned, unlearn them.

Easy to say I suppose, and true. When you want to do something, what stops you? Sure the voice can offer some pretty solid advice. Some things are better off not being attempted. Life is hard, there are lots of obstacles. If you kept track of the why that is being offered by that inner voice, you may learn some things about yourself. Is it your voice? Is it someone that always made you feel inadequate? These are things that you need to figure out. Someone stole your self esteem and now they mar every decision you make. Take back control of your life. You make your decisions and be sure that things you don’t attempt or walk away from are based on valid reasons. It will never hurt to try and so what if you fail, you can try again. Don’t rob yourself of your own happiness.