Move gently into your New Year, take some time to decide what is really important. Reflect on the past years and think about some of your regrets. Really dig up the good stuff and things that made you happy. Repeat all the good things. Learn from the things you passed up or even screwed up. How will you do it differently this year? What is stealing from your glow? Be brutally honest with yourself. Don’t fall into those patterns this upcoming year. Work extra hard on yourself!
Replay the highlight reel, no time for sitting in any unhappiness. Take all your favourite parts and any unfinished tasks or desires and put them in a jar. Do them this year. There’s no deadline for good things. It doesn’t have to be huge, some little things we put aside are just as important. You know what your deficits are. Even the Grinch had a list, however, skip the self loathing.
Don’t deprive yourself, factor in yourself first. Say what you need out loud. Unbury your flavour, zest and passion. Not a New Year thing, make it a New you thing. Don’t play Devil’s advocate there will always be blockers, haters, negative Nellys in this lifetime. You don’t need an audience or someone to hold your hand, to be yourself. Life changes start today.
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